RELATIONSHIP AREN'T EASY.

Nobody ever said it was going to be easy. You know? I don’t think any kind of relationships are ever suppose to be simple. It should be in the beginning.. simple, easy-going and care-free. You don’t know the person to not trust them or to trust them. You have a choice to go for it or not go for it. In the beginning the only information you have are what they did, who they were before, and who they are now. In the beginning it was never meant to be complicated. There aren’t suppose to be drama and crying late at night in the beginning. In the beginning it’s always going to be exciting, refreshing and happy. But relationships aren’t always going to be like it was in the beginning. They do get stronger, happier, and tougher. More obstacles, more crying, more drama, more non simple things. So then what makes a person let go, give up and just forget? I ask myself that every time. 

 

Relationships aren’t meant to be easy. If it were easy, then it won’t be a relationship. Relationships come with laughter, joy, happiness, smiles, butterflies in the stomach but they also come with pain, agony, disappointment, and heartaches. You can’t just take one side and then once the bad comes you give up right away. You can’t just give up once the other person gives up. You can’t just give up once there’s no more connection, no more laughter, no more love. Because that’s when commitment comes in. People tend to forget that commitment plays a big part in relationships. Next to trust.

 

Yet, at one given point, that person took all they had, took all the waiting for that person to change, took all the patience, all the crying late at night wondering whatever happened between them, all the shadiness, all the worries, the over-thinking, and threw it all out of the window. A person can take so much from a relationship that the only option IS to give up. Knowing they never wanted to give up at all. Knowing that this person IS the only one they love and that they don’t want to be with anybody else. Knowing they’ve held on for so long, but why give up now? They, at that given moment, couldn’t bear it anymore. 

 

Again, relationships aren’t easy but they can’t always be bad, bad, bad, every night either. They have to be balance. Equal. Because two people made a promise to love each other, despite their faults. However that can be overlooked, when one of them is destroying the other person’s heart. every day and all night long. When that promise was only coming from one end. That is when, you have to look at every option. And all you have to ask yourself.. is this really worth it in the end?